when your spouse completely refuses to show any kind of intimacy toward you whatsoever. How do you act "as if" things are ok? How do you continue to support them thru whatever they are going thru? whether it's their low self asteem because of weight gain and people continuing to ask if they are pregnant. Or whether it's the bitter past therapy seems to dig up? Or possibly the side effects of anti-depressants. How do you act "as if" you feel loved, wanted and cared for. When that is exactly how you don't feel?
