I'm throwing this question out into the open to anyone who wants to answer, it's a bit like the holiday card question.


At the moment W and I are in the same house but separate rooms. Slowly things get better. By process of elimination I have worked out that W,D6 and myself will share a bed on Christmas night. (MIL,FIL, take one bed, My Ma takes the little bed). W hasn't said anything but by her arrangement I can see this happening.

Question(s)
Do I ask W is this for xmas only or do I just stay in the room after xmas(I'm 99% sure if I ask she will just say it up to you).

I don't want to seem pushy or start a pursuit, but I get this feeling that W want me to take a lead in things. At this moment I know she won't want to be seen to be asking me.

Should I just wait and see, or do I ask questions.


Me:50
W: 49
T:20yrs
M: 14 yrs
D:11
2005 PA
2006: EA (2003 : 2007)
2007: April ILYBNILWY Aug PA, Sept Separate
2008: Feb Piecing
2009 Limbo
2011: Separated (same house)
2013: Divorcing