I am so extremely annoyed now, I was out yesterday and when I arrived home the post had arrived and a card for son, I didn't open it as it looked like it was from my sister and by the way he as told me to open his post and if one comes from his dad he doesn't want to see it, so because it looked like it was from my sister son opened it and guess what, IT WAS FROM HIS DAD. Now I am so annoyed as to the fact ok yes it is christmas but dad hasn't contacted son for over 9 months and he as thrown son and I out of our home, I have only told my real close friends my address and somehow he as found out. Don't get me wrong here I knew he would find out sooner or later as his son is here, but the fact been he didn't want us in his life, he didn't want us in his house, he as been whining to his solicitor that we hadn't given him prior notice that we were leaving and he as been whining to an old friend he didn't have any contact numbers for us, so then why and how as he hunted out our address so soon after us leaving we have only been gone four weeks, it is a case of he doesn't want us there but he needs to know where we or just son are. The card was in his writing but the envelope was not, it had a stamp on as if it had come through the post but there were no signs of it going through the system so someone as posted it by hand. I can't believe he is still winding me up now he as well and truly got me out of his life, what is the point of going to the trouble of finding out where we are when he doesn't want us. I am so annoyed because son thought this was a fresh start without his dad in our hair, he thought this place was a safe haven without the moron and now this. GOOD NEWS IS HE AS SIGNED THE PAPERS FOR THE COURTS AND AGREED TO EVERYTHING, ie that is he has to change son's bank accounts into my name, he has to give us a capped amount of money when the old shack as sold, and several other minor pieces, so he's taken it all the way to the courts and lawyers and in the end he as given me what I asked anyway, what a tool and what a waste of money.
