As for getting a face 2 face, is there anything going on with the kids coming up? What are you all doing for the holidays? I think there are a lot of legitimate reasons to meet up and talk. It's just important to make sure it's a good reason otherwise it will seem like you are being clingy and just want to be around her.
Ann - there's the crisis with S7 repeating 1st grade and not doing as well as his teachers expect. They think he may have a learning disability and want to do some testing, etc. Also D11 was a straight A student last year but now is falling behind. W's amitious for the kids but not very objective about it all. So I've been using this as my reason for meeting. She keeps blaming the school, the teachers, me, etc. Since I have the kids Xmas week I'm taking them to TX for a family reunion (all my side). I wonder how she's going to feel. She will get a detailed trip report from D11.
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It is definately going to be a long bumpy road. Hang in there.
Apart from the emotional rollercoaster the legal/financial side is very scary. She's getting easy money and is enjoying her "freedom" but I'm feeling the pain. So as far as the legal process I'm torn between slowing things down and accelerating it.
Me-48, W-38 M14, D11, S7 W filed D 01/07 W had to move out 06/07 Current Thread
