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... she feels she has reached out to you, served you, etc...for 15 years and to what result?

Exactly! Says she was a slave ... was unhappy very day of the 15 years.

Now the OM. For his this is dating, ...

If she's still meeting him its very secret ... the kids haven't seen him or heard her talking to him for a while now. She quotes other casual enablers though to justify herself. I don't go beyond what she tells me by herself.

You have to stay calm at all times. Women want to talk, they want someone to hear there problems ...

Have to create opportunities to meet her now. I've been able to do it 3-4 times in the last month using the kids as pretext. But I've got to be very careful not to pursue in any way.

Reason I tell you that story, is you think everything is hopeless ...

Exactly. I feel like my life and my kids futures are completely ruined emotionally and financially and I've been really beating myself up for not seeing this coming and doing something about it earlier. And I'm very afraid. Thanks Atlas.