W showed to pick up S tonight. Used some of my new listening skills and got a 30 minute diatribe from W. Just validated it all and she opened up like a book, I could tell she really felt supported.
Had a good night playing with S and being with W. She is on the couch right now, but I can't get the gas fireplace lite, so the house is cold and there is a huge storm outside. I told her about the bed again, said S would be inbetween us, but she declined. Well see it is going to get cold tonight, and my house a heat seive.
She is considering going with me snowshoeing Sunday. We will see.
I'm also going to tell her tomorrow before I go to work to let me know how one of her work issues goes today. She was really upset about a problem, and I got the whole story. So that should show I'm listening and paying attention.