Hi Barbiedoll,

I appreciate your comments to my post as your experience and wisdom are evident in everything you say here.

Brief clarification (as George Patton said, "If it can be misunderstood, it will be misunderstood").

It was not WAW that was standing at the window, tapping and waving goodbye as I walked down the driveway, it was DD8. It was one of those "hallmark moments" which are much more poignent in real life than on a tv commercial.

My daughter has been my inspiration and source of strength throughout this whole ordeal. She commented once after overhearing my prayer that my wife be returned to me, "GOD says you're going to get your wife back". Another time after WAW and I had a fight the kids heard she said, "Thanks for standing up for us dad".

And as I mentioned she also showed me the answer to the question, "Should I keep her and her brother on WAW's week"?

It was this same litle girl that stood up to a child molester and got him sent away to prison.

Need I say more?


"The answers are within you" (can't remember who). Unfortunately, so is the bullshit.