H4C, yes, man, what your W did to you was unbelievably harsh-- now that is certainly something I'd call cold-blooded.
Wow, dude... Just wow.
And for that I can truly understand why you would want your W to suffer the consequences, purely because they would be the consequences of her actions. And yeah, I realize as Christians we're supposed to turn the other cheek, but boy do I sometimes wish the Lord would get His vengeance sooner rather than later.