It is # 7 that is most relevent for me right now. The old R is dead. H is here almost daily, so we still have some kind of relationship even if it is only for the purposes of co-parenting. I am going to stop focusing on the loss and focus on rebuilding a new relationship. If it can start off well enough now based on our interactions, then hopefully we can be in a good place WHEN the R with OW ends.
I would highly recommend this - Since we got much of the BS out of the way, the friendship my W and I have has improved greatly. While we've not even touched on working on the M, we don't fight or argue anymore - AT ALL.
