Hi Lizzy, Sorry I haven't been keeping up with you. I started LL but put it down when H jammed it down my throat how "OVER" it is. I should probably pick it up again. I kind of though why focus on it right now when I'm not anywhere close to repairing my marriage...but maybe it will help in the process if I understand how to talk to him. Hope you have a safe drive and enjoy your weekend with your D's. J~
M 35 H 29 M 4 yrs T 9 yrs D 3 S born 10/19/07 Bomb 09/10/07 Separated next day OW - broke up and H moved out 09/07/08 Status - still figuring this out