No Code... Been there, done that. My W left me Dec. 25th 2005. I could not believe how heartless she was about it.

We opened presents with our daughter that morning, I bought W a CD I knew she wanted, she bought me nothing. After our daughter opened presents, we all got dressed and I took my D with me to my folks house. That was the last time I saw my W in our house.

She had bought a house (I had no idea she did this) and left me in financial ruin with our house in foreclosure. SHe had made sure she was taken care of (took ALL the furniture)and left me to drown in a sea of debt and misery.

I spent a week in that house sleeping on a mattress on the floor, didnt even have a chair to sit in. I remember coming home after work and sitting against the wall and wondering what I had done to deserve this. I mean there was absolutely NOTHING in this house, nothing. It was a vacant house, nothing but carpet.

Luckily I was able to short sale on the house and walk away from it with only 12k in debt. COuld of been much worse.

I too am Christian but as much as I try to walk with the Lord, I wanted my W to suffer for everything she had done to me. I wanted her to suffer the absolute worst possible pain known to man for hurting me like she did.

That Christmas changed my life forever but I made it through it, you can too.


Hurtin: 32
WAW: 30
D: 8
Bomb: 10/05
Sep: 12/05
Back together 8/07
Bomb (OM): 11/07
Filed for D (me): 12/07