Originally Posted By: BritInOH
Originally Posted By: lizzy
He knows I have some stressful days ahead of work and told me to make the most of it. He actually seemed to care. H also thanked me for some very minor thing that I did this morning. I really need to read the Love Language book. I bought it but haven't opened it yet.


Hey Lizzy!!

You'll have to let me know what you think of the LL book - I bought a copy back in October and have read it front to back a few times. I'm honestly still not sure which LL is the most appropriate for my W, so I'm sort of using a mix and it seems to yield some results.

Hopefully you'll get some time over holidays to see how your H responds to various things.

Did he find a permanent place to live yet?


I plan to take the book to my parents this weekend. To bad I can't read it while I'm driving for three hours. H is staying here so it is the Ds and me. Anyway, I'm looking forward to the book as I have seen many good things about it here.

No H hasn't found a place yet. As far as I know he hasn't looked. H has been staying at the apt. of a friend who was kicked out by his wife.


H spent the evening w/ the Ds. H ended up taking them shopping for gifts for me. \:D Something to look forward to. It was the Ds idea, but H told them he was planning on going tomorrow. H also decorated cookies w/ Ds tonight. They were finishing when I got home. It looked like they had fun, and I'm so happy about that.


Me: 41
H: 42
DDs: 10 & 15
M: 19yrs.
Bomb: June 2007
Separated:10/28/07
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