What kind of a mental state are you striving for here?
That is a good question. And this is the very thing I'm struggling with. I guess I just don't want to always feel like i need to know where my H is at all times. I hate that feeling, yet I can't stop feeling this way. IF he's not a work or somewhere where I know he is, I find myself wondering if he's seeing or talking to OW. And I find that these thoughts are almost uncontrolable.
But I AM working on it, but MAN it's hard.
Aud, it's nice to feel someone relate to my feelings. It's hard to stop these insecurities. I find myself going in cycles... i will go a few weeks feeling great about things, then I'll hit a patch where I don't.
Cat, I read what's going on in your sitch, but have been unable to post (my H was sitting right next to me). And you are right... kjnowing you will be okay without H is very empowering. And I've been there. But now after so much progress has been made, I am feeling much more vulnerable.
Cat, I am going to post on your thread in a minute...
Last edited by peaceful_spirit; 12/21/0701:26 AM.
Married 9 years Kids 5 and 6 Bomb 2006 H back and forth for a year M now back on track
