well this was as much of a negative push and a lie to you as you saying 'I want a divorce' was to him.
Im lost as to what to say, becasue I dont have a solution for you Mojo. {huggs}
Thank you. I don't remember if I actually said "I want a divorce." I asked for a few basic things for the billionth time and he responded with his exit line and I think I was just like "Okay, so when are you moving out then?"
I've been thinking about when it is "wrong" or "self-destructive" to respond "positively" to wolf/top behavior in a man and I think the answer is something like when he manifests that behavior to excuse his own absence from the ranch rather than to keep you safe in the fence. IOW when he manifests that behavior in a pre-emptive attack to inhibit you from establishing a boundary.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
