Thanks Being Me! what I need to keep in mind especially during this period of feeling pretty unwanted, is that a beautiful, intelligent, empathetic woman went way outside her comfort zone and normal behaviour because I was someone who touched her in a special way. It was because I was who I was that made her want to care for me, that makes me feel pretty darn special. So if I can do that to her, I can repeat it elsewhere, maybe not right now but when the time and situation is more appropriate (and the person is available!). My loss here, in a way, is also my gain. It's all in the way we look at it!
