maybe you should give my H a call and let him know what he should be doing... LOL... j/k
it sounds like you are trying. Not sure what to tell you on that. Sounds like she just doesn't want to have sex. Does she give you any real reasoning other than maybe if you try everything you can think of maybe I'll respond, but probably not?
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Im more than a little resentful that I have to go through all these hoops just to get what should be a fun, playful, exciting, natural thing newlyweds do. Im espcially resentful that I didnt get the favor returned on my B-day.
maybe she senses this. i know that you try to control it and i know that it's hard not to think, i've been doing everything for you, come on! If she senses some resentment for you having to do these things for her, then that's probably a major turn off...
Not sure what to tell you... you can't keep going on like that - you'll just feel more and more resentment. You two really need to break down the R and talk. Is this even something you both want?
Did you read hairdog's thread?
If i can't fall in love... I'd like to fall in chocolate! ~ Author Unknown
