Good point. It is a pickle because to give a reason is also going to be translated into shifting blame...And I won't do that either
Yep. It's a lose, lose. Of course, it is of your creation, if that helps!
Seriously, I don't see how to get through it without professional help, and that isn't at all my usual thinking. It should be possible to overcome a ONS, but all the surrounding issues will have to fall, as well.
Good luck! At least she's talking to you.
I don't know about this part, it is for the two of you to discuss. Should this be taken away from here? Maybe a bit of status know and then for the nosey fans , but resolved more privately?
, but resolved more privately?
