GGG- What it means to me.

[blackfoot]

im dumping this in Mojo's thead again.
Let me know if it bothers you Mojo.

Yeah blackfoot, gotta be careful not to overextend our feeble little minds. I really do appreciate the concern. *friendly smile*

Ah the friendly smile of the chesire cat. I know it well. :-)
See SG, I dont think women have feeble minds. In fact they occasionally keep me on my toes, with there verbal quickness and directness. I do think women are designed/evolved a certain way, and untill they are aware of it and acknowledge it and accept it, they wont be able to (minimally)control it anymore then if I would be able to (minimally) control myself if I didnt acknowledge who and what I am.

See we no longer have strict externally enforced boundaries on adultery like we used to. It wasnt 100% effective then, its certainly not going to be effective relying on internal boundaries, in our culture, for myriads of reasons. Im inclined to believe your previous 'inevitible' statement. I was just hoping you would expound from a femal POV.

Mojo said

Women don't get it when they truly need it (support for insecurities-I disagree to an extent, but...) either but if you think about it that's probably a good thing for the survival of the species.

The survival of the species is not an issue. Health care is doing a fine job of dissasembling the survival of the fittest allready.
We are talking about M, not the survival of the species. It will take care of itself. Its hardwired. M is about family. we are letting survival of the species (a mute point) control our actions. simplified, A man does that when he cheats on his wife for something younger prettier, (unacceptable) and a woman does that when she leaves her H cause he is placating supplicating. I dont see the same shouts of indignation from men or women when that happens. Why not?

Yes, as it wasintended to. You see, oh superior male, our feeble female minds respond quite well to an "I hear you" followed with an "how about trying this".

Either you believe I am a superior male, which prompts me to not trust you, because you cant discern reality, and are going to expect more then my fair share from me in a R, or your being sarcastic and self deprecating. My ego is large enough, I dont like having it fluffed.

What our feeble female minds don't respond well at all to is being called "children", or "toddlers running with scissors". Tends to shut us down completely, in fact.

Well once again, those were not MY analogies. Those were analogies give by WOMEN to describe themself. and I didnt see any woman shut the other women down because of it.
See Ill let you in on a secret. Give away one of my weaknesses. Lets see what you do with it.
I dont have an original or creative bone in my body. What I do have is a slightly high level of comprehension and take apparently disparate concepts and put them together.

You'll never get any woman to listen to you if she doesn't feel heard.
This is almost true. I dont have a problem getting them to listen, (its a type of genius I know. LMAO J/K. crack me up Burgbud. ) but I wont cause a woman to feel understood or cherished, if I dont take the time to listen -just because--and also hear what she is saying, instead of blowing off what she says becasue it doesnt make sense to me, or I think its stupid, or think SHE doesnt understand...when she is talking in code to me.
If she didnt talk sooooo much it would be easier to listen. My ears get tired. When I tell her to get some girlfriends, its becasue I love her, and Im trying to get her what she needs, not becasue Im trying to push her away. I can only handle so much jabber.

But indulge my feebleness for just a minute and tell me where I tried to "fix" MrLFL?

Well then I misunderstood this post.

Healthy young men do tend to physiologically want sex every few days at least. Question is what they do with that impulse. Suppress? Ignore? Turn to porn? Masturbate? What? Do you know what your h does with his?

I don't happen to think he needs fixing. I recall asking about where he directed his sexual impulses. How's that "fixing" anyone? your right. I apologize. I dont usually ask men where their woman directs her sexual impulses. Its irrelevant. I just give ideas on what will make him more attractive to her and how to direct it. (although I dont do to much of that hear. to many scalliwag lurkers) Thats my style, this was yours. both work for the intended.

I know, I know ... so tedious for the superior and all-encompassing male mind... but I'm sure you can find it in your wide heart to stoop to our level and humor me if you search long enough.
ascerbic sarcasm from a southern girl. must be one of those bayou girls, and not a belle. Highly unrefined. Im cut to the quick of my wide heart. [sound of ice tinkles]