I noticed my H kept commenting on small home things, that we had to do or fix, when he began to slowly see the light.
Today W asked me to switch off the computer from the mains when I've finished because it still burns electricity and is costing us money. A nice friendly request. Things move slowly in the right direction.
Me:50 W: 49 T:20yrs M: 14 yrs D:11 2005 PA 2006: EA (2003 : 2007) 2007: April ILYBNILWY Aug PA, Sept Separate 2008: Feb Piecing 2009 Limbo 2011: Separated (same house) 2013: Divorcing