To clarify, I wasn't necessarily accusing IC of doing this *deliberately*.
Oh, I know that, Kett. I'm not accusing him of this, either...just aware that it is possible. And, to clarify further, I have done the "Guilt Meltdown" and, until it was pointed out to me, wasn't even aware of the effect it had. Now that I do know it, I try hard to stay away from that bad habit.