ann25, I can only say from my experience that it helps a bit in this department if it is done the same day as ML, but otherwise not much. Is it Coke that had the jingle "their is nothing like the real thing"?

Anyway...one question. Maybe I missed it, but I am not seeing the full timeline. You have been married 6 weeks and this problem became an issue 8 months ago. How long have you been together?

PF

Me; 42, W; 43
M; 16 yrs
S12, D9

3/13 - "I want to move to XYZ City (four hours away) and it might be without you, not sure"
5/13 - "Not sure I meant that"