okay... maybe it's different for guys, but does masturbating help?
Has she always had an issue with oral sex or is this new since you guys haven't been having sex much. If you can get her open to it, you might try the oral sex first, get her almost to "the finish line" and then start intercourse, rather than vise versa... just an idea.
ummm... early stage of the R? how long have you all been in a R, much less M. being comfy w/ each other explains the tshirts and sweats, but it doesn't explain neglecting another persons needs.
I think you guys need to sit down and talk. Really figure out what you both need and expect out of this M.
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