Her tax comments are a bit confusing though especially right after she was asking to split expenses.
She already told me a while ago she wanted to file a joint return and split the refund 50/50 - I really don't have a problem with that, since we basically make the same amount of money.
Right now I only pay for her car insurance and cover the medical insurance through my employer - Everything else is her own, hence why she can't afford any Christmas gifts for anyone. She has a lot of student loan debt and credit cards - I have no debt at all.