We always had ups and downs in her sexual desire. There were times in the past when she initiated it and we were happy. But she says that was just because it was a new relationship and im still stuck in the early stage of the relationship when things were easy. Now weve moved on to the later stage when were comfortable with each other and were just not going to be the people we used to be. Which seem really unfair. She seemed to like sex when we do it. BUT, ive had a problem with um... finishing too soon and shes been disappointed. Ive tried to talk to her about it, told her that a lot of it is because we dont do it often. WHen I go for 2-3-4 weeks of course its going to be over soon. Ive bought educational videos to try and make it last longer but every time I bring it up she gets mad. Ive offered to do more for her to get her across the finish line but she wont even give me the chance to prove it. On the rare occasions when we have sex, if she hasnt finished i try and touch her or start heading that direction orally and she wont let me.. So im stuck. Its just become so complicated
