Don't you dare put Miss IC in the position of trying to stuff her anger and feel *sorry* for you because you've melted down into a little puddle of guilt. It's ultimately a selfish emotion.
This sounds familiar to me, i.e. "oh no, I've been caught, I need to be MORE MERCILESS to myself than she can be, so that instead of being angry with me, she'll be so distracted at the beating I'm giving myself, that she'll end up comforting me." I don't know if IC is doing this, but the possibility that he is doing it, well, it makes me a little uncomfortable inside my own skin while reading this thread. IC, answer all questions, take the consequences of your actions like a man, and get ready (if MrsIC allows you) to rebuild trust one brick at a time.
And, by the way, this:
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I knew it was wrong beforehand, I knew it was wrong as it was occuring, remorseful enough to leave right in the middle of it
rings my BS bell, big time. Sorry dude, but I'm feeling especially cynical right now about everything, not just you.
