LFL, What's the worse of 2 evils? Torturing your wife with revealing a ONS....or sitting back and watching her torture herself over her anxieties that she thought stemmed from inside her, all the while knowing that it was me that was causing them?
My only thought is that she must have been experiencing the anxiety because You were giving off anxiety vibes about the A. kwim? She knew something was up because you were acting odd. So you didn't tell her abou the A to relieve her anxiety, you told her to relieve your own anxiety. I'm not blaming you, but let's call a spade a spade. You knew this would cause WWIII and you did it anyways. Why, only you can answer.
LFL
Ok, fair assumption and I'm not going to dispute you...I can't. My intentions where not to relieve my anxieties and contrary to what my actions define...I have a tremendous love for my wife and to stop from seeing her being eaten alive by her anxiety, IMO, I had to reveal the root cause of it. Yes it hurt her, yes I was wrong, yes I did this and that blah, blah blah... The truth remains the same....I did it and I can't change that. Am I remorseful? Yes, and not the old line "remorseful that it was discovered" I knew it was wrong beforehand, I knew it was wrong as it was occuring, remorseful enough to leave right in the middle of it....it doesn't change a thing! I did it and I'm to blame. And whatever Miss IC decides, I'll have to live and respect that decision. LFL, what is it you want to hear from me? I'm not upset....I'm lost!
