should I tell him how I feel? or should I just continue to give him space. He was supposed to start counseling yesterday but has a bad sinus infection and rescheduled. He didnt tell me for when and I didnt ask. When he first came back he was open to all my questions and now seems to want to not answer any more. If I do tell him how should I do it. I do not want to put pressure on him. I have no idea if he is in contact with her or not and I am afraid to ask. Sometimes it seems as if he wants me to tell him to go so he can go back to her. this is so hard.