Please help--Need advice!!!

[Patrick325]

I layed it all out there, I mean it's true but I didn't consider it to be excessive. Most of our friends and family are shocked. They think we had a great marriage....not perfect but pretty good. This is why I blame the mlc--there are a lot of components..work being a big one. My W is a realtor and made about 25% of her normal pay for the last two years. I knew it was bothering her but I never pressured her and always supported her (told her it wasn't her, it was the market, etc.) I feel our R problems were something that needed to be fixed but was very fixable but she Dropped the bomb and turned negative on everything I tried to do. Flowers, cards, offers of dates, going away with me handling everything...nothing was good. I wasn't sure if it was the job, hormones, the neighbor, me --or a bit of all of it.....it was and still is overwhelming.