I know what you are saying about the changes in your H. My H is also 29. He has lost weight, talks about going to the gym (never did that), and quitting smoking. My Mom was saying that she really doesn't think it has anything to do with OW. He already has that, why does he need to get into shape for anyone else.
I like the post. It makes a lot of good points. Today we had a doctor's appt. It was the first time, since he left, that I really felt that it had nothing to do with OW. I didn't realize that would hurt worse.

Enjoy your wine.


M 5yrs
1st baby-girl born 6/18/08
Bomb: 10/13/07 OW - I was 6wks Prego
H Moved in w/OW: 11/2/07
D Final 07/10
OW had his baby 3/17/09-so her
Me, now - happier than I ever was with him