Do yourself a favor and ask your friends not to give you details. What good does it do you to ask for them? It just makes you upset. I think sometimes that the saying "what we don't know, won't hurt us" is the best policy. I had to finally ask my In laws not to tell me anything that H has said to them about OW. I just don't need to know. Try to relax and not dwell on it. Nothing good will come of thinking about it. Go down the opposite path.
M 5yrs 1st baby-girl born 6/18/08 Bomb: 10/13/07 OW - I was 6wks Prego H Moved in w/OW: 11/2/07 D Final 07/10 OW had his baby 3/17/09-so her Me, now - happier than I ever was with him