I am so glad. My H and I spent a few weekends away together without the children after reconciling and we also have a date night once a week and make sure we meet for lunch at least once a month. The A showed me the importance of being a couple as well as a family - our M was so child centred I had forgotten about H as a person. It continues to get easier as the children get older.
I would be lying if I didn't say the memories and hurt come back and bite me from time to time but they are getting more bearable.
Have a wonderful Christmas
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength