[b]I'm not sure what you're asking there but to be clear you have NO blame in IC's decision to f*ck up! He had no excuse for what he did. I don't care if you refused sex and he felt devastated. If he was that devastated, then he could have left rather than what he did.
Thanks Fearless,
I'm not really clear what I was asking there...not really asking anything I guess. Just to clear things up, No I'm not feeling the blame on IC's decision and FWIW, he has not offered any of what you said as an excuse...he has not offered an excuse period!