Southern Girl & LFL,

FWIW...I'm not defending IC's actions so much as I'm defending mine. The flirting that you all see on here from IC is not reality and I took it with the grain of salt that it is. I don't want it to seem that I am just some little meek spouse following along behind her husband and letting him flirt with every girl that comes along....It's not like that. Yes, he's witty and fresh with the ladies on here, but I've never been in a situation with IC in real life where any of his comments have made me feel uncomfortable or as if he were flirting.

I'm at a loss for why this happened. This does not change things for me right now, but if you people only knew the real IC you would see how atypical this action is from him. That is what is making this all the more difficult for me.