All the way home from work I had the repetitive thought 'Maybe she'll relaize she was selfish and hurtful and i'll come home and she'll grab me and take me to the bedroom and work me over'
Magical thinking.
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She recently changed her BC, after a year of me CAREFULLY suggesting it to her. SO maybe that will make a difference.
More magical thinking.
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Im trying to tough it out for a year so I can say at least I gave it a chance.
How brave of you! Your martyrdom will surely be recognized. One suggestion: tell HER that you're going to tough it out for a year. Be radically honest. What have you got to lose, except a YEAR of your life?