I havent tried the 180 yet. Im not real sure how to do it. Getting mad and hurt and resentful and talking about all the sex were NOT having isnt helping the situation though. I dont bring it up much anymore but it is ALWAYS nagging at the back of my head. Especially last week when we didnt do it for my b-day. All the way home from work I had the repetitive thought 'Maybe she'll relaize she was selfish and hurtful and i'll come home and she'll grab me and take me to the bedroom and work me over' But as I walk in the door its the same thing, t-shirt, sweatpants and TV till 10. She recently changed her BC, after a year of me CAREFULLY suggesting it to her. SO maybe that will make a difference. Its really the only hope I have left. Im trying to tough it out for a year so I can say at least I gave it a chance.
