Geez, I'm with Saffie here. I can't believe this is taking place on a message board. Are you guy's talking face-to-face?

Miss IC ((((((((Hugs))))))))). Woman, I FEEL your pain.

I don't know if this will make you feel any better, but here goes: I would trade places with you in a minute. He had an affair, admitted it, told you (well, on a message board), and says he's sorry. You both have a lot to work through, but it sounds like the hardest part is over.

My wife is still cruising along in denial, refusing to confess that her "friendship" (EA) is wrecking our marriage.


Me: 51
W: 50
M 24 yrs
EA: since Apr 06
S22, S26, S28
ILYBNILWY:Nov 07

"It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything." Tyler Durden