Nice Move IC....Real Nice !

[saffie]

Mrs IC,

I read your questions to IC and although they are directed at him I wanted to say:-

You coming on here, was it an act of guilt on your part or was it a genuine act of trying to save our marriage?

I think from what has been written IC has already answered this. He said, I believe, that after doing this he realised that just sex wasn't the answer - he wanted to be having loving intercourse with his W.

Do you think of her?

I think he has also indicated that if he does think of her it is with shame and regret.

Why should I forgive and try to forget about this?

Because as an outsider looking in you obviously have a special relationship. You also have two lovely girls between you. Because if you don't give it a chance you will probably regret it later.

Only IC can answer your last question.

One thing I am curious about. Mrs IC did you have to come on these boards and read about this to find out what IC had done? If that is the case then I think you need to question your communication issues in your M. Is IC always going to run to a public forum in order to be able to open up to you? That doesn't seem quite right to me but that's just MHO.

Mrs IC, the pain does fade - honestly. I am so sorry you are going through this.