I appreciate the advice. I have been thinking about our future for some time. Things just arent like they were in the beginning. When we first met and were together we had all these discussions on how were going to be together forever and how were the happily ever after couple and how were going to always be the perfect mate to each other. How we would be so great that it would make all our friends jealous that they didnt have a relationship like ours. In the beginning sex was great, it was often and she was very sexually giving. Now its like pulling teeth and she hasnt initiated it in months, well unless shes been drinking, and forget about any kind of oral sex. That hasnt happened in a very very long time. I just dont know what to do. I do still believe in us, we have an o.k. relationship in all the other areas, but this is definately lacking. Ive told her many times that im just not o.k. with having sex 1-2 times a month. Im hoping she'll read the book too and maybe shell see how important this is to our relationship.
