Patrick, I checked out your thread and you got ALOT of great advice here. I'm not here to brown nose anyone but Jack and RCR have "Been there done that,wrote the book and sold the movie rights" If you haven't already got get Michele's book. IT HELPS. No matter what if you are committed to saving your marriage, please realize that it is going to take TIME. GAL and be happier than a lark when ever you see her. (ya I know easier said than done but they do notice) Most of all be there for the kids. Don't play the kid card with her. Just continue to be the loving Dad. As for the neighbor, turn the other cheek. In the end he has to answer to God and look at himself in the mirror each day. He isn't worth it.
Gman Me 40 W 30 kids B 11 B 10 D 8 Been here off and on since 06. PA Confirmed Dec 08.. With God, anything is possible. Do or do not there is no try. Sometimes you have to roll the hard six...