I don't really feel like talking to you right now, but there is something that bothers me (among other things)...You come on here offering your tidbits of sympathy, understanding and advice to some of the cheated on spouses on here like Journey, Red, Bomber etc...and..and..look at you! In your words..WTF? Is this in some way, YOU trying to atone for what YOU did?
Why IC? Why? I know things were not good for us, but still...
Ugh. Big hugs to you Mrs IC. I know how hard it is to forgive a spouse. No words of wisdom. Just know you are certainly not alone and vent as much as you want. You have every right to do so.
Sorry IC, but I just don't understand what the point was of even telling Mrs IC right now. Maybe I am in the minority here, but if you got tested for the STD's, and it was really a ONS, and you are sure in Yourself that it will never happen again, then why torture your W with that little tidbit. I dunno...
