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[Lanzo]

Hi fb2,

Now the OM. For his this is dating, I know this is hard to remember, but it is playful and fun. Your not looking for a life, a wife and kids, just someone fun to hang out with. Then as things become more serious, you get drawn in. Well if you interfere then they have to chance to ruin it themselves. She will always wonder if she missed out on her romance of a lifetime. So don't ever ask, don't snoop, don't bother. What will happen, is as you don't react to her button pushing, she will become more and more guilt ridden. She will sit around and complaing to him, crying and whining how bad you treated her. Suddenly, OM sits back and goes what am I doing, I would treat you the same as well, your a downer a crier and I've had it. His friends will point it out. In a guys eyes, if it where your friend you would say, "hey man, this girl is emotionally unstable, what are you doing?" He will begin to question, then the fights begin the R will crumble. But this doesn't happen this week, this month, it could take 6 months to 2 years. You have to have your marathon shoes on.

Hang on to this quote from Atlas, cos word for word this is has just happened with my W. OM has had his fun then binned W, I think W was looking for more than he was willing to give. W even had the gaul to tell me their last encounter was a disaster.

Hardest for me thing was to see her leaving with her overnight bag, and all I could do was to tell her to have good time. Now it's done she's full of guilt, doesn't know where to turn, and is looking for me to give her an out.

So you hang on in there