I think same thing about affair. I think COG hit the nail on the head regarding it (at least that's what I hope) in an earlier post. BUT the phone bill WILL come, I WILL see it, i just hope that # isn't on it (at least too much). I'm just letting that be for now, not thinking about it much, hasn't really bothered me because of W's reaction/changes (a baby 'leap').
I don't think W is done with me, either. I'm still learning patience. This would be so much easier (albeit still not easy, better expressed as less difficult) if it wasn't the holidays & I wasn't on IHD.
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