Originally Posted By: JennyF
By her reaction I wouldn't say you overstepped it. But maybe now is the time to step back a bit and let her make the move in that direction.
Good for you for taking a chance. Think about it like you're first dating again...you don't always know what reaction you're going to get...but you have to take the plunge sometime!


W isn't going to make my moves right now - She's unhappy, sick, exhausted and just totally burned out. She pretty much won't do anything but the minimum right now unless I drag her into it, although she really does not resist much when push comes to shove. She didn't even remember who was supposed to take D tonight and ended up calling me at about 5:30 to ask if I was going to get her. I don't know entirely what is going on with her right now, but I get the feeling she is going through a lot of emotional turmoil.

So far my advances haven't yielded any negative responses. I have a good idea where the line is with her, and I'm making a point of firmly staying on this side of it. I really don't think she has a clue what she wants right now.

Originally Posted By: JennyF

What I would give to feel this way again. Sorry...had to throw my own little pity party in there!


Likewise - I am finding W to be more 'loving' towards me, but I know I can't rely on her right now and that it might disappear overnight.