By her reaction I wouldn't say you overstepped it. But maybe now is the time to step back a bit and let her make the move in that direction.
Good for you for taking a chance. Think about it like you're first dating again...you don't always know what reaction you're going to get...but you have to take the plunge sometime!

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so I do my best to make her feel safe and loved,

What I would give to feel this way again. Sorry...had to throw my own little pity party in there!

So glad your night went well Brit.
J~


M 35
H 29
M 4 yrs T 9 yrs
D 3
S born 10/19/07
Bomb 09/10/07 Separated next day
OW - broke up and H moved out 09/07/08
Status - still figuring this out