Im at home now....not getting much response on my thread, so any advice would be appreciated. I'm at probably the lowest point right now.
W left today with kids to go skiing for 5 days. I wasnt invited. I have the kids next week. My kids kept asking me why I wasnt coming. My W also took off her wedding rings last week. This probably hurts the most. I cant explain what this feels like. It really hurts right now.
She has no sense of reality when it comes to spending right now. Buying tons of gifts, and staying at an expensive ski resort. Loaded the kids and herself up w/ new equipment. Then, she emails me two days ago to ask if it's o.k. to go on a trip with her friend to Cabo in Jan...it would be about the 12th vacation for her in the last 12 months. I said no, it's not ok with me as we are both doing vacations right now and I dont know where all this money is coming from. She lives in a sort of fantasy land as far as our money is concerned. Dont think that I'm a tightwad, but I dont think travelling the world with her friends is affordable, nor do I think its the right thing to do for a mother with a couple kids. I knew of course she would get pissed at my reply, but, I need to stand up for myself. She didnt talk to me last night, and said hardly nothing this morning. I'm not expecting her to contact me at all while she's gone.
I know she has met with her lawyer and is proposing a formal separation on 1/4. I am meeting a lawyer tomorrow to see what I'm in for.
Do I have any hope? I have never seen her so cold and its killing me that those rings are off.
