Well, after catching up on your posts, especially the last two, it seems like things are slowly improving! H calling you to tell you to be careful out, calling you at work, thanking you for a minor thing. This is what my H did right before he began to turn around, he began to be more respectful of me like I was him, despite his alien journey he was on. Read the love language book, has some interesting insight on what people need and how good something simple you do for them makes them ecstatic but is unimportant for you.
Hang in there lizzy.
I hope you are right PM. I didn't hear from H the rest of the day until he called this evening to see if it was ok to stop by to get clothes for tomorrow. H actually spent more time with me while he was at the house than he did w/ the girls. We talked about my work, one of my friend's sick brothers, his work, Ds and buying new computers for the house after the first of the year. The computer plan was as if he would be part of the family and home still. I am very cautious because a week and a half ago he was saying he needed to find a place of his own. Trying to keep my expectations low, but feeling good about things.