I'm sure your mom is thinking of her own past M, and it is justifying her feelings about it when she does that with you. and the more you try to show your faults, the more she may not like it because she should have/be doing the same. I think she might need to get past her own M before she can get past yours....because even if your H does come back totally and you guys are doing awesome, she'll still feel that he was a total "bleep" during your sitch and it was all his fault. and hopefully that doesn't cause longterm resentment towards him.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
