I don't really feel like talking to you right now, but there is something that bothers me (among other things)...You come on here offering your tidbits of sympathy, understanding and advice to some of the cheated on spouses on here like Journey, Red, Bomber etc...and..and..look at you! In your words..WTF? Is this in some way, YOU trying to atone for what YOU did?
Why IC? Why? I know things were not good for us, but still...