Depends, on what exactly. And when. And why. And on your willingness to own up. And on MissICs willingness to work through this and forgive, whatever it was. Actually, it depends mostly on the last three. Good luck.
Yea, I know. Right now, I'm feeling like those things on her part are not going to happen.
FWIW...it was back in April. Miss IC and myself were not doing well. Miss IC went to a girlfriends house after a very minor arguement (she didn't go there because of the arguement, she was going there anyways) I went out to a local sports bar, watched some sports, had a few...some woman came onto me and I allowed her in my life and now I'm paying the price....I f*cked up
Outch.
First time, only time? If there's anything else, tell her now. No matter if you think it'll only make things worse for you. "Worse" is if she finds out bit by bit. This is your first and only chance to come completely clean with her IC.
Answer all her questions. Give her space, if she needs time to think. Be there.
At least those are the things I think I would want. Those who have actually been in MissIC's shoes might have better advice.
