Good plan to not open the R can of worms. The "alone time" and not showing without a phone call does bother me a bit. Do you ever feel you are just too nice to her? She blew you off for movie night, that had to hurt a little.
Stay optimistic, but cautious. She is in a wierd place right now so I suspect she is a bit volatile. Best to tred lightly and stick with your plans.
Best, --Chris
Me: 40 She: 31 S: 5 D: 3 Married: 8 years (05 DEC 99) Blow-up: 02 JUN 07 Piecing (More like Ostriching): 22 FEB 08